GOD, PRAYER AND VIRAT KOHLI

I woke up today feeling so good because yesterday was proof for me that God answers your prayers when Virat received his Padmashri Award.

Everyday I pray for this man because so many people out there keep on abusing him for so many things which they feel he is doing which is absolutely ridiculous. Guess what all those curses are not going to work as he has God with him and he really hasn’t done anything to you’ll so when you are abusing him what you are really doing is creating a vortex of negativity which is going to pull you inside further. I direct my anger, negative feelings, anxiety, stress into prayer which asks only for one thing and that is the happiness and success of Virat Kohli.

After the Australian media debacle I got a lot of texts from my so called friends telling me that Virat is childish. I ignored them as I have seen them when someone abused them, if they are judging Virat on how he retorted to those who abused him then what they have done in similar situation qualifies an insult to Satan if I call them Satan.

Virat is not a saint, he is out there to play good cricket. If you are looking for 12 steps on how to lead your life there are lot of writers/yogi who can help you that so instead of abusing Virat for the way he leads a life go read these books and even if that doesn’t work then go see a therapist. And as far as the judging goes he doesn’t really care about what you said about him as no matter what is in the papers it doesn’t stop him from going out there and working his arse off.

And all those who keep on texting me as to why I should not love Virat well I’m a stubborn, headstrong woman who doesn’t even listen to her parents when she makes her mind about something right and Virat for me is not right but the best thing that ever happened to me and I will never ever stop feeling for him the way I do. I’ll always choose him over everyone else and if you are against him then I’m always against you.

I feel sorry for you when you don’t understand what I feel for Virat because your souls are not elevated enough to understand love in it’s most pure and true form. I’m done explaining myself so when on WhatsApp my display picture and status suddenly disappears know that I have blocked you for good.

Virat I have no words to express how proud I am. I have really done some great deeds in my life that I got this amazing feeling of being in love with you. I hope that you get more successful with each passing day and you get all that you desire. You can keep on working hard and I’ll keep on praying for you.

I love you Always and Forever

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29, still unmarried and damn happy and proud of it!!!!

GREAT THINGS DON’T HAPPEN AT A CERTAIN FIXED AGE IF THEY DO THEY ARE OKAY BUT IF YOU LET THEM HAPPEN IN THEIR OWN PACE AT THEIR OWN TIME THEY ARE THE GREATEST

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Hi for all those who don’t know me I’m going to write a few details about myself in this paragraph so those who know me can skip and start reading from where they will my bio ends. I’m a 29 year old woman living in Bombay. I’m a Tarot Card Reader by profession and I aspire to become a writer someday. I have also studied law from one of the most prestigious college in India and I have also complete 2 levels of Company Secretary.This all is not important because all people see when they look at me is she is 29 years old and still unmarried.

To be honest it doesn’t bother me and if I had my way I would gouge their eyeballs out but then again I do not want to even touch such people and make myself dirty. I’m writing this post today for all the unmarried women out there who face the same criticism as me and my friends do for not being married and not having babies before we hit our 30’s. This post by no means is meant to insult anyone who is married and has babies as I respect every woman on this planet and the choices that she makes but I do have a problem with the so called society which points fingers at us. 

They have so many questions about us that sometimes I wonder if they see us as humans or as  machines. A few of those ridiculous questions are she is losing her fertility when will she have babies, is she sexually active with others that she doesn’t need a husband cuz her hormones would have started acting ages ago, is he a lesbian etc etc. these all questions make me feel sad for your daughters as if you are talking this way about us then what would you would have done to them when you saw they were thinking out of the box. I’m sure you would have cut the roots of something which could have become a beautiful tree as fitting in the box was more important to you than allowing them to grow up in their own shape.

Now let’s talk about sexual activity. It might be hard to believe but I’m 29 years old and I’m not having sex with anyone because my mind and body just doesn’t live to eat,sleep and have sex. Besides I am pretty good so crossing 30 is not going to affect my sexual appetite and performance but probably all those married couples out there are already bored and despite not being 30 and are already dreading sex and we can talk about them too  but it’s none of our business like our sexual lives are none of ours but then again we  intend to create a life for ourselves and don’t want to just live it the way others decide is right because it’s our  life and these are our struggles and we know best how to take it forward and up so please stop worrying about our sex lives.

Now I will tell you about love please try to understand as the frame fitters might not understand such a pure concept but I promise I’ll try my best to keep it simple. I’m in love with this incredible guy for the past couple of years who doesn’t tell me what to wear, don’t do this or don’t do that but all he does is love me with everything he has got and I’m so lucky to have this one in my life that I’m sure the day I met him the leprechauns must have pooled all their luck together and put it on me that I found him. Now you will say that everyone has someone who loves them then why I feel so lucky. The reason for this is because when in love you need to get love and no restrictions and boundaries and that is what I am getting if I needed rules I would get checked in a hostel and the warden would be my perfect mate. I feel I’m lucky because I have got love when I was looking for love and I’m being loved when I’m loving. When I told my boyfriend that I needed time to get married he or his parents did not give me a lecture but what he said incredibly moved me I love you with all my heart and marriage or no marriage I already consider you my soulmate so a paper or a circle around a fire is not the validation I require from you, my validation is your happiness and comfort so whenever you feel marriage will give you these two things only and only then we will get married” Now all of my fellow minded people will understand the luck and leprechaun example. Maybe your ideal married couple doesn’t have this kind of love or maybe they do but again it’s none of our business and so our love should be none of your business. For us love is not a contract which if not signed will die it’s an eternal relationship with no expiration date.

Let’s talk about loyalties now I know so many married people who are having affairs not just one or two but multiple. I don’t know the reasons for this but it’s their life and they can whatever they want and it’s none of my business but please I request you don’t give me examples of dedication and loyalty because they are married, half of the women want to jab a knife in their husband’s throats because they cheat daily on them all cuz of the lame excuses like they are not the same anymore, they have become boring, they are fat etc etc. This is not loyalty this is pressure and force to stay with the douchebag who bangs hot chicks for fun despite having a wife and children at home because this douchebag is a chauvinist pig and if this girl leaves him the world will look at her like she is a criminal.  And so I prefer my loyalty wherein despite being in a long distance relationship I don’t spread my legs in front of anyone just because I’m hormonal. Cheating on someone is the most disgusting thing ever and we don’t cheat ever on anyone because despite you thinking that since we are unmarried we are not loyal which is a farce we work on emotions so peace out.

Now onto my favourite topic babies. Because we don’t have babies we don’t qualify as maternal and feminine is the biggest pile of crap I have ever heard. Have you seen women with babies out there who are miserable because they had children early and because of that they neglect the child and their life is screwed. We are much better than those women because if we have not decided to have babies till we feel we can take their responsible then I think that makes us sensible as opposed to heartless as you feel. Another thing don’t worry about our fertility because even if we are not able to make babies tomorrow we will surely adopt some and give a nice home, safe environment and great parenting to some kid who couldn’t have it all.

Now the last thing which is very important. I always wanted to become a writer but due to some other plans I got enrolled to study law and somewhere in between I thought that this profession is not going to allow me to help people in a way I would like to and I started developing a spiritual interest in Tarot which as of today is my profession. After studying for a professional degree course when I told my parents that I wanted to do something for a higher calling they did not shout on me but told me do what you love and their incredible support had made me who I am today. At that point if I was married maybe my husband wouldn’t have supported me in this decision because somewhere in the corner of his mind he would have had financial concerns and that is completely okay but my parents did cuz they love me for who I am and the reason I have waited for a marriage is because I want to marry someone who loves me for the way I am without any expectations like my parents do and I’ll love him with the same passion always and forever.

There are many things which people will taunt you about girls but don’t listen to them as these narrow minded bunch of losers don’t know your struggles and are not elevated enough to understand your dreams.Marry when you find the right person and not because someone is pressurising you because tomorrow if your marriage doesn’t work out these monkeys will be there again with new essays on how you failed to be a perfect wife, either ways you have to have energy so use to create the life you want and not the one these people are designing for you.

Go live the life you want, marry when you want, have babies when you feel you can handle the responsibility because your life doesn’t need to start and end in a box, you need to create a shape of your choice which will be unique and beautiful. Fitting in that box will only take you till a certain point but creating your own shape will mark your space and will take you places no one has ever been to before. 

To end this post I would like to say my own quote: Marriage should be out of love and not social obligation”. 

DISCLAIMER: THIS POST IS NOT MEANT TO HURT OR ANGER ANY OF THE MARRIED PEOPLE OUT THERE. I HAVE WRITTEN THIS TO JUST CLARIFY THE SOCIAL RIDICULE WE FACE BECAUSE ARE GIRLS AND ARE UNMARRIED. SO PEACE OUT AS I LOVE YOU ALL EXCEPT THOSE PEOPLE WHO JUDGE US AS WE ARE NOT SAINTS AND WE ALSO HAVE RULES 😉 !!!

It’s all about my choice! 

I’m a Princess not only cuz my Daddy is a King and I love to dress up but also cuz when the time comes I defend my Kingdom and Win Wars for it! Being a stay at home mother or a working mother is a woman’s choice,both of them are equally strong. 
I love to cook but I also love to read and talk and discuss and stress my opinions on issues so how are you going to generalise me? You can’t right cuz you don’t have a right to do that if I decide to cook it’s my choice and if I decide to talk and discuss my views it’s my choice too so just stop this generalisation and let me and my sisters live.
We Feminists fight so that we get to make a choice and not be treated like a machine whose process is set on the buttons you press. We fight so our sisters get equal rights and opportunities.
My mother is a housewife and she is a great woman and I’m proud of her.My sister is a working woman and tomorrow even after she becomes a mother she’ll continue working but that doesn’t mean she’ll love my niece/nephew any less than my mom loves me.
Stop labelling women, we need to stand together and support each other as we know the struggles other women go to and instead of calling them Nazis or Wannabe rulers we should respect them like they respect us! 
Lastly please those who feel Feminism aims at gender superiority you have not understood it at all as Feminism is equality of sexes as we feel every person born on this planet should have the same rights,wages,opportunities and chances irrespective of the genders.
Ending this post I would like to say that I love Housewives and I love Working Women too,each of them have had their share of ups and downs and I respect them immensely!

RIP TVD

#TVDFinale has not offered any closure nor any happiness to me! I feel cheated and betrayed by Kevin Williamson and Julie Plec because:

1. Stefan dint deserve to die. He was the best character ever but all he got was pain.

2. This series starts with “For over a century I’ve lived in secret,hiding in the shadows,alone in the world. Until now.I am a Vampire and this is my story-Stefan Salvatore” this is literally his story but the funeral he gets was like that we would give a poor animal whom we saw meet with an accident on the road and decided to say goodbye to it.

3. Stefan will always love Caroline and she can understand that the sacrifice he made was for family and friends but these characters had already been through so much heartbreak was it necessary to get them married for one day and then kill Stefan? Honestly Kev Julie do you have hearts? 

4. Bonnie is living the life that Enzo wanted her to live which as I gathered and correct me if I’m mistaken is just travelling the world alone. To be honest it’s all cool and fun for a while but then that can’t be the purpose of your life.

5. There was no need to get Katherine back, the whole plot seemed very stupid and gullible and I honestly wish I had the Bennet witches on my side so I could perform a spell and add some sense into Julie and Kevin’s brain.

6. Stefan tells Elena to tell Caroline how much he loves her but this is Vampire Diaries and if Matt can feel Vickie moved on and found peace with Tyler why can’t Stefan find a way to give a damn message to his wife whom he left to be a martyr for the greater good(a stupid concept) 

7. I don’t know if there would be a spin-off series including the Salvatore Boarding School but getting Jeremy just so that Caroline could hand him that bow and he could smile was stupid. His sister was semi-dead for 2 years and his ex Bonnie with whom he never had proper closure who had died and come back whom he never met,wasn’t that scene necessary? 

8. Even though Damon and Elena get to be together and grow old and have a life the scenes dint to justice to that ship as well but we are just happy as at least we got to see one couple together.

I’m not even gonna be happy about the #Klaroline letter because this is a plot by Julie and Kevin to raise our hopes and crush them again.

You might feel that this is a series and why I’m so upset but I invested 8 years of my life in this series and grew up with it’s characters, it became crap but I kept on watching as I had hope that everything will be okay one day but it got worse and horrible and ended like crap. So RIP TVD

I wish I could write more but I feel like my brain has just died after watching this stupid finale